Starting 2016 with a bang!

I started 2016 in a big way!  First of all, my children and their families were here New Year’s weekend to celebrate Christmas.  It was a wonderful way to start the year.  Everyone seemed to have fun together hanging out, playing games, and eating.

Loving the new books!
Loving the new books!
Playing the new games "Bells"
Playing the new games “Bellz”

The past few years we have started some new traditions while opening gifts.  After everyone wakes up and the kids open their Santa gift and everyone unpacks their stockings, the adults play a gift card memory game.      imageThe adults, instead of exchanging gifts, each bring three $10 gift cards for the day’s games.  Another game that is always entertaining is our wheel of fun.  (This wheel was from years ago when Neal’s dental office had a booth at the Berrien County Youth Fair.)

Wheel of fun!
Wheel of fun!

This game requires earning your gift cards either by answering trivia, “head-bands,” acting something out or stealing a card. To make this fun you need people who can be a little crazy.  No problem with my family!

Acting out the nativity scene with a little flair!
Acting out the nativity scene with a little flair!

We added a new game this year, a Saran Wrap ball.  I put a gift card in the center and started wrapping with Saran Wrap, adding little items along the way.  We found it works better if you use the cheap clear Saran Wrap from like the Dollar Store, use short strips of Saran Wrap instead of longer pieces and every so often put strapping tap on the ball.  The adults wore bulky mittens when it was their turn.image image

One person started in the middle unwrapping the ball. A pair of dice went around the circle, everyone taking a turn to roll.  As soon as a person rolled a double, it was their turn to unwrap the ball.  Just as soon as an adult got on the gloves to start unwrapping maybe someone rolled a double already and they didn’t even get a turn.  Some people were “lucky” and had several turns unrolling while one family member didn’t even get a chance!  The kids even enjoyed it.  For more details you can search on Pinterest for Saran Wrap ball.

On Monday I took Collin back up to school at Grand Valley University near Grand Rapids.  After I went to Holland to have coffee with a friend.  Before I arrived there, an older gentleman pulled out of a parking lot on the right side ands crossed over two lanes of traffic and hit me head on while I was in the left turn lane.  Both air bags deployed.  I am alright just received a good blow to my chest and some bruises.  My car didn’t fare so well, totaled.

So long my Jeep!
So long my Jeep!

Back at home later that night I was feeling sorry for myself thinking about probably having to put out more money towards a car.  I also started thinking about how my medical insurance is going up over $400 @ month.  Don’t get me started on my Obama Care.  I felt myself getting anxious, frustrated, physically exhausted and depressed.  When we focus on the negative things happening in our life we head down the path of no peace.  I started thinking about the blessings.  Bless God for air bags and that the accident happened in Holland where my son, Britton, and friends, the Liske’s, could come and help.  The rental car company only charged me the fee my insurance company would cover instead of the larger amount they quoted me.  Because I have a little Chrysler 200 rental I have stayed home more because I don’t feel as safe in it as I did my SUV.  Therefore, I am getting some projects done here at home.  There are always blessings to be found if we look and don’t get buried in the negative things going on around us.

God doesn’t want you to be downcast, constantly looking at your problems.  Rather, He wants you to lift up your head and look for blessings.

Lord, I pray that 2016 will be a year you would help me walk with you daily in the way of peace, looking to You for guidance and comfort.  May I have eyes to see the blessings every day that You provide.

 

A Christmas Carol of Hope

Do you every feel as though God is trying to teach you something through events that seem to have a shared core?  That happened to me last week.

Last weekend I went to a suburb of Chicago to help my son, Karsten, look for an apartment close to his work.  On Sunday we went to Willowcreek Community Church in Barrington.  The teaching that week was about carry for those in prison.  Bill Hybels message stressed that no one is beyond hope.  At the end of the service we packed 32,000 bags, between all the services, with books and snacks for the prisoners in Illinois.

Bag
The bag we packed
Bag contents
Some of the bag contents

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Praying for the prisoners who will receive the bags
Praying for the prisoners who will receive the bags

On Monday I flew to Dulles Airport i Washington DC to spend some time with long time friends of Neal’s and mine.  Jim works for Prison Fellowship.  Chuck Colson was founder of Prison Fellowship, Colson Center for Christian Worldvew and “Breakpoint” that aired on the radio.  Colson served as Special Counsel to President Richard Nixon.  Mr. Colson spent seven months in prison after pleading guilty to obstructing justice in the midst of Watergate.  Prior to his inprisonment he gave his life to Christ.  Following prison his radical life change led him to leading Prison Fellowship, the world’s largest outreach to prisoners, ex-prisoners and their families and the Colson Center, a teaching and training center focused on Christian worldview thought and application.

Tuesday night my friends and I went in to DC to see Charles Dicken’s “A Christmas Carol” in the historic Ford Theater where President Lincoln was shot. Scrooge with his Bah! Humbug! attidude encompasses all that dampens Christmas spirit: greed, indifference, selfishness and lack of consideration of other people.  He was a penny-pinching miser who cared nothing for the people around him and mankind only existed for the money he could make of them through explotation and intimidation.  He particularly detested Christmas which he viewed as “a time for finding yourself a year older, and not an hour richer.”

A Christmas Carol
A Christmas Carol

 

Behind me, Jim and Cathy is the box where President Lincoln was shot.
Behind me, Jim and Cathy is the box where President Lincoln was shot.

Scrooge is visited on Christmas Eve by the ghost of his former partner, Jacob Marley, who died seven Christmas Eve’s ago.  Marley, a miser just like Scrooge, is suffering the consequences in the afterlife and hopes to help Scrooge avoid the same fate.  He says, “I wesr the chain I forged in life…I made it link by link, and yard by yard.  I gird it on my own free will, and of my own free will I wore it.” Marley tells Scrooge he will be haunted by three spirits: the ghosts of Christmas past, present and future.

Through these spirits visits, memory serves to remind Scrooge of a time when he still felt emotionally connected to other people, before he alienated himself from society.  Empathy enables Scrooge to sympathize with and understand those less fortunate than himself, people like Tiny Tim and Bob Cratchit.  His fear of death, used by the last spirit, helps the completion of Scrooge’s reformation.  Christmas morning finds Ebenezer doing acts of kindness like sending a Christmas turkey and raising the salary of his long-suffering clerk , Bob Cratchit, spending Christmas day in the company of his nephew, Fred, whom he spurned in years past and helping Bob’s crippled son, Tiny Tim.

We sometimes find ourselves feeling imprisoned or in chains, like Bob Marley, of our own making because of choices we have made.  Or maybe we are a victim of our circumstances beyond our control, like the poor in “A Christmas Carol.”  Either can leave us with feelings of hopelessness.

Author Charles Dickens saw a need with the plight of poor children.  In 1839 it was estimated that nearly half of all funerals in London were for children under the age of 10.  Those who survived grew up with no education and virtually no chance ro escape poverty.  Dickens felt this cycle could only be broken by educating the public, hence the writing of “A Christmas Carol.”  Chuck Colson saw a need in the prisons and for ex-prisoners and their families and founded Prison Fellowship and The Colson Center.  Willowcreek packed bags of supplies for prisoners to offer Christmas cheer.

What does Dickens, Colson and Willowcreek have in common?  They wanted to offer hope to those imprisoned literally or in spirit.  Charles Dickens said, “For it is good to be children sometimes, and never better than at Christmas, when its mighty Founder was a child himself.”  During the Christmas season what a better time to remember the ultimate gift God gave by sending His son as an infant to offer hope to a broken world.  Dickens, Colson and Willowcreek all showed compassion.  Jesus showed compassion through tender sympathy to the poor, the despised, the hurt, and the sinful.  No one was rejected or ignored by him.  Christ payed the price for sin and opened the way to hope and peace with God.

What can I do to offer hope to a broken world?  What can you do?  This is what God did:

8-12 There were sheepherders camping in the neighborhood. They had set night watches over their sheep. Suddenly, God’s angel stood among them and God’s glory blazed around them. They were terrified. The angel said, “Don’t be afraid. I’m here to announce a great and joyful event that is meant for everybody, worldwide: A Savior has just been born in David’s town, a Savior who is Messiah and Master. This is what you’re to look for: a baby wrapped in a blanket and lying in a manger.  13-14 At once the angel was joined by a huge angelic choir singing God’s praises:  Glory to God in the heavenly heights, Peace to all men and women on earth who please him.  LUKE   2:8-14 MSG                                             

Peace and hope to you this Christmas season.

On the journey,

Trish