Cowgirl Trish Here

Those of you that know me may be surprised to learn that I just returned from a week at a dude ranch in Colorado.  My kids said they wanted pictures to prove that I was actually there!  My two widow friends and I sat down a while back and made out a bucket list of things we would like to do.  A dude ranch was on Julie’s list and she asked if I would go with her.   I would not have chosen to go there for a vacation and it was definitely out of my comfort zone but am so glad I did!  It was fantastic!

Black Mountain Ranch McCoy, CO
Black Mountain Ranch
McCoy, CO
Julie and I fitted for our chaps and ready for our first ride.
Julie and I fitted for our chaps and ready for our first ride.

 

We did all sorts of activities besides riding:  archery, skeet shooting, fly fishing, lassoing, barrel races, and white water rafting.  Here are pictures to prove that I did all of the activities!

Looking pretty good!
Looking pretty good!

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One afternoon we road out to a lake for dinner and fly fishing.
One afternoon we road out to a lake for dinner and fly fishing.
Barrel races.
Barrel races.
We went white water rafting on the Colorado River. I was in the front and got totally wet!
We went white water rafting on the Colorado River. I was in the front and got totally wet!

 

 

 

I never hit one of the clay targets at skeet shooting!
I never hit one of the clay targets at skeet shooting!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We rode in the mountains almost everyday.  The views were breathtaking especially at the top of the mountain at 10,000 feet altitude!  My horse’s name was Outlaw.  We got along well the whole week.

Me and Outlaw!
Me and Outlaw!
Yes, it is me!
Yes, it is me!

 

 

 

 

 

Looking down at the ranch on one of our rides.
Looking down at the ranch on one of our rides.
God's beautiful creation!
God’s beautiful creation!

One afternoon we rode 2 1/2 hours to pack camp.  Our dinner was prepared over an open fire.  We slept in tents that night.  It was cold at night but usually warmed up during the day.

Julie and I at pack camp
Julie and I at pack camp

Our group was one of the first groups to get there.  Of course we had a out house for a bathroom.

Pack camp outhouse
Pack camp outhouse

You probably know where this is going, yep, my phone fell down the hole!  I was not about to loose all my pictures.  Fortunately, it was a fairly new hole so…..I pushed the box out of the way and retrieved my phone.   I know, gross…….

The outhouse had 3 walls.
The outhouse had 3 walls.
The view from the outhouse:)
The view from the outhouse:)

My favorite activity was Saturday when we got to go on a cattle drive.  We had learned earlier in the week how to “steer” the cattle.  Saturday we headed out to the mountains to retrieve the 80 head of cattle and bring them back to the corral so they could be checked over and the new babies branded.  It was so exhilarating!  We would locate the cows and ride behind or alongside them and yell to get them to move in the direction we wanted.  I was riding in the trees, bushes, etc.  It took all morning to locate them all and get them back.  Later in the afternoon after they were checked over and branded we drove them back out to the mountains.  Yep, you can call me “cowgirl” now!20150825_110124_resized

The black things are some of the cattle we found.
The black things are some of the cattle we found.

So many times we, me included, like to stay in what is comfortable.  It can be scary to leave something that is safe and secure and step out into the unknown or unfamiliar.  After Jesus had fed the 5,000 people he had the disciples  cross to the other side of the lake in a boat while he sent the people home.  He had gone up the hills to pray by himself.   A few hours later the disciples thought they saw a ghost coming towards them on the water and were terrified. Jesus reassured them that it was He and not to be afraid.  Peter said, “Lord, if its really you’, tell me to come to you by walking on the water.”   All right, come,” Jesus said.  So Peter went over the side of the boat and walked on the water toward Jesus.  But when he looked around at the high waves, he was terrified and began to sink.  (Matthew 14: 22-36).  Peter took his eyes off Jesus and looked at his circumstances.  If he had not listened to Jesus’ voice and not stepped out of the boat he would have missed out on something incredible, walking on water.

When I would serve something new for dinner and one of the kids would say, ” I don’t like that,” I would respond, “How do you know?  You haven’t tried it before?”  They would try it and say, “Oh, this is good.” Had I not stepped out of my comfort zone and gone to the dude ranch I would have missed the incredible experiences.  Yes, somethings I tried I wasn’t very good at, like shooting, but other things I learned I enjoyed, like riding horses.  I would have missed the blessing of seeing God’s beautiful creation of the mountains, rivers and animals and meeting some wonderful people.

Sometimes we need to step out of what is safe and secure.  We need to step into the unknown or out of our comfort zone. There we can experience the power of God and and have some amazing experiences.

Do you like to stay in a safe place?  It is usually there that we think we can handle things on our own and leave God out.  Get out of the boat and walk on water!  Trust God.  Experience something new!

 

On the journey,

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Precious Moments

The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of activities.

First, I would like to introduce you to Jonah Neal Smith born to Britton and Michelle on August 11, 7lb 2 oz., 30 inches long.  Big brothers Eli, who will turn 5 in a couple weeks, and Caleb, who just turned 3, are thrilled with their new brother.

Proud dad and me with grandchild #7!
Proud dad and me with grandchild #7!

We celebrated Caleb and Lane’s birthdays at Britton and Michelle’s so erveryone could see the baby.  Lane (Grant & Jenni’s son) turned 6 and Caleb turned 3.

Birthday boys!
Birthday boys!
Caleb, Eli with Jonah, Lane, Corbin with Hadley
Caleb, Eli with Jonah, Lane, Corbin with Hadley

Eli and Caleb were able to spend a couple days with me here.  It was Berrien County Fair week so the boys enjoyed a day of rides, animals and tractors!

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Our dear friends (I mean MY dear friends) from Zambia came for a few days.  I still catch myself saying “we” or “our” instead of “me” and “my.”  They were here for some meetings in Chicago but also to attend our mutual friends son’s wedding in Holland, MI.  This wedding was particularly hard for me.  The Liske’s daughter got married two days after Neal died three years ago and Jim Liske did Neal’s funeral.  The last words Neal said to me before he slipped in unconsciousness was that he wanted to make it through the weekend so he didn’t interfere with Ali’s wedding.  It worked out that Neal’s funeral was 2 days after the wedding.  Lawrence Temfwe, from Zambia, also spoke at Neal’s funeral.  Sitting at the wedding I was reminded of when Christ returns.  The last book of the Bible, Revelation, talks about that there will be a new heaven and new earth.  Our old sick worn out bodies will be made new.  The new place where we will reign with Christ will come down from heaven like a beautiful bride prepared for her husband.  God will be with us for all eternity.  It will be a place of no more sorrow, no more death, no crying or pain.  (Revelation 21)  Sounds pretty amazing to me.  It gives me hope to continue on each day.

Mr. and Mrs. Josh Liske
Mr. and Mrs. Josh Liske
Cathy Liske, Martha and Lawrence Temfwe and Jim Liske
Cathy Liske, Martha and Lawrence Temfwe and Jim Liske

The day after the wedding I left with my widow friend, Julie, to go to a dude ranch in Colorado.  My next post I will share about my awesome time becoming a cowgirl!

 

When I got home from the ranch, the following day was the anniversary of Neal’s death, Aug. 31, 2012.  It was a hard day for me for several reasons.  I mentioned earlier about the recent wedding; there were a couple times at the ranch that were emotional for me wishing Neal was with me; I was tired from traveling; while I was away the mice problem got worse (Whitney and Ty were house sitting and dealt with much of it which was a blessing) so I had a mess to deal with when I returned home.

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This weekend is our annual Labor Day Weekend family reunion with my mom’s family.  I love having everyone here.  It is such a blessing to be together.  So as I leave this post and anticipate my parent’s arrival, let me leave you with this thought:

Happy Moments–Praise God

Difficult Moments–Seek God

Quiet Moments–Worship God

Painful Moments–Trust God

Every Moment–Thank God

I pray your moments are filled with praise and thankfulness as we each continue on our journeys.

On trhe journey,

Trish