Expectations–Part 1

What do we do when God’s actions don’t match how we perceive His character and promises?  How do we respond when God doesn’t behave the way we think He should?  What do we do when God’s actions collide with our expectations?

This fall I have been involved in a bible study, Amazed and Confused by Heather Zempel, dealing with those questions.  It was a study of the book of Habakkuk.  Where’s that and who is that you might ask.  Habakkuk is a small book in the Old Testament.  He was a prophet.  Who knew this little book was packed with so much to learn from?  Habakkuk looked around and asked God why are the wicked people prospering and how long is this to go on?

God’s response was:  “Take a look at the nations and watch what happens!  You will be shocked and amazed, for in your days I am doing a work, a work you will never believe even if someone tells you plainly!”  Hab. 1:5  It sounds like God was going to do something wonderful and awesome-something good.  In actuality God continued with words of warning and what He was going to do didn’t seem good for His people.  He told Habakkuk that He was going to bring changes to Judah by invasion of their worst enemies-the Babylonians.  That’s not what Habakkuk expected.  It didn’t seem fair that the bad guys were going to win.   God never claims to be fair or nice.  He does claim to be good, just, faithful and loving.

I want God to do things according to my expectations, but He works according to His purposes (Romans 8:28).  What seems best to me may not be what is best because God has a perspective that I don’t have.  I would not have chosen some of my life experiences over the past few years.  I have to ask myself, do I allow my circumstances to define God’s character?  OR, do I allow what I know about God tell me the truth about my circumstances?  I can either frame God with my problems or frame my problems with God.

Habakkuk didn’t like God’s plan.  But God told Habakkuk that it would get worse before it got better.   The Babylonians would also be punished.  God said you can respond two ways, either trust in yourself or the righteous will live by their faith in God (Hab 2:4).

Faith doesn’t mean that God meets my expectations, but it means I cling to what I know about God’s character and promises.  It means trusting that God is who He says He is and He will do what He says, even if it doesn’t meet my expectations.  Because God is in control.  I may not understand the reasons or the why.  The truths of God may be hard to see at times.  I can look back to times in my life when I remember God being there for me, knowing He will do it again in His time.  Warren Wiersbe says, “God doesn’t always change the circumstances, but He can change us to meet the circumstances.  That’s what it means to live by faith.”

I have learned that it’s good to wrestle with God like Habakkuk.  Be open with my concerns and cares as long as it draws me closer to Him and not away.  It’s good to cling to His Word and promises during times I don’t understand the why and how long.  It’s good to remember how God has helped me in the past knowing that He will help me through now.   I want to be a survivor, hopeful, not a victim of my circumstances, helpless.

Our circumstances may not change, in fact they may get worse.  But God can change our perspective.  Will you allow Him to change yours?

…the righteous will life by faith. Hab 2:4

We will see the rest of Habbakkuk’s story next post.

On the journey,

Trish

Misunderstood

Summer has come and gone.  I haven’t posted since the beginning of June.  But I am back to share because it is very theraputic for me and helps me process events and thoughts.

Much has happened since my last post, which I will share over the next few posts.  One thing I have been dealing with this summer and now into fall is being misunderstood.  Do you ever feel like you are doing the right thing but some other people misinterpret what you’ve said or done?  They don’t have all the facts and don’t try to understand.

I think Jesus was and is the most misunderstood person.  Yet He didn’t demand to be understood.  He provided opportunities for others to understand Him, but He didn’t force it.

As a boy, Mary and Joseph realized that Jesus was not with them on the return journey back to Nazareth from celebrating the Passover in Jerusalem.  They turned around and went back to Jerusalem to find Jesus in the temple asking questions.  Mary said to Jesus, “Son, why have you treated us like this?  Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.”  “Why were you searching for me?” Jesus asked.  “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?”  Mary and Joseph did not understand what he was saying to them.  He did return with his parents to Nazareth.  (Luke 2:46-52)  His parents knew Jesus was Son of the Most High (Luke 2:31) but they did not understand what that really meant. His own parents didn’t fully understand Him.

A crowd had gathered one time to hear Jesus’ teaching.  Mark 3 tells us that when his family heard about this, they went to take charge of him  becasue they thought he was out of his mind. (v.21)  His siblings had played with him, went to school and synagogue with him, worked with him, shared meals together year after year.  They only knew him as their brother and they had no idea he could be more.  Jesus’ own family did not understand him.

When Jesus went to his home town of Nazareth, he began teaching in the synagogue.  The people were amazed at what he was saying and his miraculous powers.  They asked, “Isn’t this the carpenter’s son?” (Matthew 13:53-58)  They did not mean it as a compliment but a slur.  These people had seen Jesus grow up and knew his parents.   They couldn’t get past that, therefore, couldn’t believe his message.   They did not allow themselves to see beyond what they knew.  Jesus’ hometown didn’t understand him.

We see numerous times in the Gospels that Jesus was misunderstood by his followers.  The disciples did believe that Jesus ministered in the power and wisdom of God’s Spirit.  (John 12:15-17)  Yet, they still did not understand some of the things he said or did.  They failed to recognize the symbolizism in Jesus’ teachings and actions.  (John 13:7-13)  They failed to perceive Jesus’ real mission and his resurection. (John 6:18; 20:9) Even after the resurrection, the disciples still didn’t understand.  John 20:9 states that they still did not understand from Scriptures that Jesus had to rise from the dead.  Mary Magdalene was confused at the empty tomb thinking that the body had been moved to another location.    Jesus’ own followers did not understand him.

After the resurrection, the disciples still needed to have Christ open the Scriptures to them (Luke 24:7).  So the risen Lord sent them the Holy Sprirt to them to open their eyes, mind and hearts of the truths of Jesus.  The disciples did remember all of Jesus’ teachings and testified about Christ to the world.  The books in the New Testament are testiment to their undersstanding.

Jeus kept his course even though his was misundertood, even killed.  Christ’s ministry on earth was fullfilment of Old Testament prophesy.  It was all part of God’s plan.  When I am misunderstood I feel a need to go and explain or justify myself.  I wonder why that is?  I wonder if it is my pride making sure others really understand where I was coming from.  I wonder if it is because I want to control the situation.  Or maybe becauseI am so concered about what other people think of me.

I can try to “set some people straight” but some people aren’t going to change no matter how hard you try.  Here’s how I am dealing with being misunderstood: seek the Lord for guidance and wisdom.  Keep on the path he has placed me.  Don’t get discouraged, because God is in control and he provides comfort and peace.  Check my heart attitude and motives.  Do I need to go to someone for clarification?

it’s tough being misunderstood.  I can’t image how Jesus felt with so many people misunderstanding him.  Yet, he rose above it and kept doing His Father’s will.

Are you misunderstood?

Lord, help me seek you always, trusting you for guidance and widsom.  Help me stay the course even though I am misunderstood.

On the journey,

Trish