So much stuff

Last weekend was the Bridgman city wide garage sale.  It’s a big deal here!  (I know, small town excitement).  There are actual traffic jams and people come from all over to participate.  I met one group of women who came from Shipshewana.  They come every year and spend the night.  I have been saving all year as I would go through things.  Being a widow has allowed me to go through Neal’s things after the boys took what they wanted.  We had accumulated many things.  I had a lot of things in the sale last year and this year I had even more!  Where did it all coome from?

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image imageSo much “stuff.”  Have you ever seen a hearse pulling a U-Haul?  Nope, because we can’t take our stuff with us.  Jesus gave an illustration about a rich man whose farm had produced so well that his barns were full to overflowing.  The farmer said he would build bigger barns to store everything.  Jesus called him a fool.  He warned the people, “Beware!  Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.”  Luke 12:13-21

Covetousness makes you want more and more.  It makes you jealous of your neighbor’s new car, or your friend’s  bigger house.  Commercials on TV tell us we need that new IPhone, or this miracle drug that will help you lose weight, or the vacation in the Bahamas.

In the parable, the farmer’s problem isn’t that he had a great harvest, or that he’s rich, or that he wants to plan a future.  The farmer’s  problem is that his good fortune caused him to see everything starts and ends with himself.  Jesus doesn’t warn against money, wealth or material abundance.  He warns against greed, about the feeling of never having enough.

Solomon, the richest king mentioned in the Bible, had any and everything he wanted, and more of it.  Yet he found it was all worthless and futile.  It did not produce happiness or satisfaction in his life.  He said, “Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth, is never satisfied with his income.”  Ecclesiastes 5:10  Solomon’s conclusion in the end was that we are to “fear God, and keep His commandments.  For this is the duty of man.”  Ecclesiastes 12:13

God gives blessings to us materially so that we can be a blessing to others, not to maintain a luxurious lifestyle to benefit our greed.  So, “don’t be obsessed with getting more material things.  Be relaxed with what you have” Heb. 13:5 MSG.

I have been going through things to simplify and downsize.  Try it!  Maintenance of our stuff takes time and you have to find a place for them.  Donate them to an organization like Goodwill or a safe shelter so others can use them.   If you do have a garage sale, think about ways you can use your profits to bless others.  Dont buy more stuff!  I’m telling myself that as well!

On the journey,

Trish

 

Happy Birthday Neal

Neal would have been 57 today.

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Fifty seven seven years ago May 11 was Mothers Day.  For many people it is a difficult day.  I usually shed some tears but also have some wonderful memories of the man who made me a mother.  This year I was in Indianapolis for the weekend with Whitney, Ty, and Banks.  Karsten drove over Saturday to join us.  We had a wonderful day at church and then out to eat at one of my favorite restaurants, Seasons 52.  Banks made me this cute flower pot with his feet prints.

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When I got home last evening, I continued gathering things to put in the Bridgman city wide garage sale which is this weekend.  I went into a closet that I hadn’t been in for a couple years.  It had a lot of my scrap booking supplies and rubber stamps for card making.  I pulled out a container with the stamps to price them and found a love note from Neal.  Before he was sick, Neal would write on children’s valentines and hid them in random places for me to find.  So before he died, Neal wrote on several Valentines and had the boys hide them around the house.  Much to my surprise and delight I found one in with my stamps.  What a special gift for Mother’s Day! Neal was so thoughtful, always thinking of other people.

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The valentines I have found since Neal died.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I pray you had a wonderful Mother’s Day whether you are a daughter, mom, a role model for kids or teach kids.

i am blessed to have 8 people call me Mom and 6 children call me Grammy.  ❤️

On the journey,

Trish